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Carlene Tan Li Xuan
11th July 1988.
Currently 23+.
Studied in St. Anthony's Canossian Primary and Secondary School,
SRJC (first 3 months),
TPJC, NUS FASS (econs).
loves family, friends, chocs, western desserts, yellow, etc etc.

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Thursday, July 01, 2004

Sec 3s:
well, its quite upsetting not to have known you all better but i can safely say that i think you will not have much problems in terms of communication with the juniors coz you peeps have good repall with them, which i feel very happy for you about, becoz that is something i haven't been able to do. I won't say i feel safe letting you guys take over becoz you don't appear ready to me, but i will say that with hard work and team effort, you guys will bring SJAB to a higher level. so continue working hard, don't be shy if you need help in your studies, although your seniors don't have very amazing results, but i think we'll still be of help... hehe, hm... since i know you people the best of the lot, i do have some personal msgs to tell you guys...
felicia:
many people tell me you're not a natural leader like others, but you're someone who needs to be trained and i definitely agree with them. I have seen you improving in terms of attitude and level of maturity, and i have to say, out of the 5 of you, you're definitely the one with the highest level of maturity when it comes to organisation, however this trait can still be muched improve and that will be one point i will focus to help you with. You must learn as a leader to take criticsms postively and don't be as stubborn as me, it'll usually not do you any good, but if you think that it is essential so as to improve our corp then go all the way for it. As a leader, studies still comes first, and if you want to achieve good results, the only way is to plan your time properly, have proper time management, and only then will you become a good leader. However that doesn't mean you can neglect other aspects such as council and cca. Always be organised and only then will you have successful events. Don't aim too far otherwise nothing will be achieved... alright?
Abigail:
Hm... you're one person whom really disappointed me during the camp, but maybe its because you're not mature enough and i suppose i know why, but that still doesn't give you an excuse to tease others, okay? Compared to when you were still a sec 1, you have definitely matured after attending the advanced nco, and i'm very pleased with how you can dictate as a leader now. I think you can make a very good ;eader if you start to think more independently and logically. I'm glad to have seen your leadership abilities through the trainings and camp, but there's something i must warn you, and that is to always think about the feelings of others before saying anything. You're a very direct person, like amanda, that to you can be the reason why you will make a good leader and will also be the reason to your downfall, depending on how you make use of it. Not everyone is that insensitive to reflect all criticsms so watch what you say, even if you don't mean it. but overall i think, with more training, you will be a sucessful leader.
Amanda:
okay, what can i say... honestly, last year, you were in the list of holding one of the higher ranking positions, and perhaps we gave you too much hope, and that was probably the reason why you got carried away. I agree with you that studies come first and i hope you'll always keep that in mind, sometimes amanda, like abigail, you can be too direct, which hurts the feelings of others. As a leader, you must always remember to consider the feelings of the people around you and be sensitive to how they feel. You can be real whacky at times which makes you a reall good comedian when the atmosphere is tense which is your personality and which i feel will be of great use in the days to come. The only problem i see in you is that you take comments too lightly, do not always think that comments are made for fun, we're actually trying to drop hints to you on how to become a better leader and you should pick these hints up and try to improve. Hm... i think if you want to be a good leader, you must get the attention of people and that's something which i sense that's lacking in you, and it can be seen from the camp, so try to improve on that as well... so anyway, i think you've been a real interesting junior and i think its fun hanging round with you.
Li Jing:
girl arh, you MIA (missing in action) for quite some time rite... well i can't say much about you since you weren't at camp so its pretty difficult for me to see your leadership qualities, but from past experiences, i can only tell you to speak up more and be more daring ya?
Yi Zhi:
Well... i will tell you the same thing i told Li Jing, that's to speak up more, there's many good qualities that i see in you and i think is good for your peers to learn from you, that's determination and perseverance which i see will be much of a need for the 5 of you all in future so yi zhi, pls guide them along. As a leader, it is important to get the attention of your people and that is something which i think you can work on, and pls do so, also don't let the juniors step over your head otherwise they'll be very dificult to control. For you i think your main problem is not being exertive enough, do something bout that k... jai you!

sec 2s:
well i think you people are a really sensitive bunch, which makes it interesting to teach, but sometimes you all tend to take things to seriously, you peeps should learn to relax and be more optimisstic, also have more self confidence and work harder coz i see a lot of potential in many of you. Remember to respect your seniors who are taking over and don't step over their heads, which means don't take advantage of them okay? You still can look for any of your current seniros if you need help, and like i said during the camp, dont wear a mask or try to change yourself for someone else, ya?

Sec 1s:
WORK HARDER!!! Don't disappoint your current i.c... and don't give a hard time for your next batch of seniors, always revise what you've learnt and that's the only way to improve... ya? jia you!